Sure, I have visited churches several times, but I gave up…
But I need help. I know I need help. There are times I hurt badly and seek answers. I was hoping to find some of those answers at church. I was hoping to meet people who cared. I was hoping to be in place where I am treated with dignity and care.”
This link is basically a compilation of other links and articles, some of which I’ve already shared, that seek to provide help for the Christian voter in this hard-to-figure-out election. Lots of wisdom here…
Many of us have been prayerfully asking ourselves that question. And we’ve been seeking wise counsel. In today’s post, I’ve collated online counsel that can be helpful to us as we seek to address the issue of Trump, Clinton, and the Evangelical Christian Voter…
While I don’t have sons, and I don’t necessarily agree with every single piece of advice, I loved this article. Below are three of my favorites.
“People don’t look bad in photos because they “aren’t photogenic”; they look bad in photos because they think they are better looking than they are. Don’t be one of these people. Embrace and own the degree to which you are funny looking. It gives you personality, and it will cause you to be pleasantly surprised by your reflection in the mirror now and then.”
“If peanut butter could only be found in the placenta of a rare tropical bird, it would cost $1,000 per ounce. Sure, caviar tastes good, but so does peanut butter. People are irrationally attracted to that which is scarce, because scarce things function as status symbols. If you understand the elements of human behavior that are irrational and predictable, you are freed from them and can benefit from the insight.”
“Always give money to street musicians, even bad ones. (Well maybe not really bad ones.) The streets need more music.”
On being treated like an adult –Seth Godin
“It’s great to dream like a kid, but no fun to be treated like one. It bristles because we feel that, even if the person involved has best intentions, we’ve outgrown being treated like a child. Some behaviors to consider if you want to avoid this situation…”
This is the stuff I found helpful, challenging, interesting, or amusing today that I think may enrich your day as well...
I’ve enjoyed N.D. Wilson’s insightful and reflective writing for some time now. I appreciate very much what he says here about children’s literature..
Why I Write Scary Stories for Children –N.D. Wilson “I write violent stories. I write dark stories. I write them for my own children, and I write them for yours. And when the topic comes up with a radio host or a mom or a teacher in a hallway, the explanation is simple. Every kid in every classroom, every kid in a bunk bed frantically reading by flashlight, every latchkey kid and every helicoptered kid, every single mortal child is growing into a life story in a world full of dangers and beauties. Every one will have struggles and ultimately, every one will face death and loss.
There is absolutely a time and a place for The Pokey Little Puppy and Barnyard Dance, just like there’s a time and a place for footie pajamas. But as children grow, fear and danger and terror grow with them, courtesy of the world in which we live and the very real existence of shadows. The stories on which their imaginations feed should empower a courage and bravery stronger than whatever they are facing. And if what they are facing is truly and horribly awful (as is the case for too many kids), then fearless sacrificial friends walking their own fantastical (or realistic) dark roads to victory can be a very real inspiration and help…
…But the goal isn’t to steer kids into stories of darkness and violence because those are the stories that grip readers. The goal is to put the darkness in its place.”
She’s going to be on the $20 bill, click on this link for a little bit about why…
“I always tole God, ‘I’m gwine [going] to hole stiddy on you, an’ you’ve got to see me through.'”
I’ve used movie scenes as sermon illustrations many times. But I think this article makes some excellent points for reconsidering that practice…
Should You Use Illustrations from Movies? –Jesse Johnson “A good friend of mine asked me what I think of pastors using illustrations from movies in their sermons. My friend uses them because he thinks they are helpful in relating to a culture that increasingly has their worldview formed through entertainment.
But I don’t buy it. In my experience, illustrations sparked by the golden screen (or Netflix, or what have you) generally fail, and are almost always unhelpful.
Here are some reasons why…”
This excellent insight isn’t just for pastor’s wives,but for everyone who serves regularly in their church…
Pastor’s Wife, Don’t Just Give to the Church
–Christine Hoover “But sometimes I am almost so robotically tuned to “giving” mode that I forget how much I need the ministry of the church myself. I don’t mean that I forget I have needs; I’m well aware of them. I mean that I overestimate my importance in the church and underestimate the importance others are intended to have in my life according to God’s design for the church. This is a dangerous perspective for any leader in the church.
Because here’s what happens. When I wake up on Sunday morning after a busy weekend or with a heavy heart and know deep down that I have nothing in my flesh to give to others, it can be very difficult to prepare my heart and mind for church. Rather going to church with a prayerful expectancy to enjoy the mutual ministry of the Body, I’m prone to self-condemnation because of my weakness, grumbling, and hiding my needs from others. It’s a self-protective, just-get-through-church perspective, because it requires me to be strong and to give but never receive.”
My Papa (pronounced “PAH-paw”) passed away while I was in college. I have some very vivid memories of him. None of them bad. I’m certainly not saying he was the perfect man. I am saying that I can’t think of a single unpleasant memory of my Papa.
He let me drive the tractor.
He let me drink his beer.
He let me help him dig potatoes.
He could blow his nose without a tissue or handkerchief. Just let it fly! This was truly impressive to me. It wasn’t, however, nearly as impressive to my mom when I tried it at home. Possibly because I was indoors at the time, but I can’t be sure.
He let me beat him at Checkers. (I thought I was just that good.)
It seems like he always had time for me.
I always loved the times I got to spend the night at Papa’s house. After spending the day exploring his farm and the woods behind it, or “helping” with some chores, I have memories of sitting in front of the fire in their little farm house and eating popcorn out of a huge bowl. I can still feel what it was like to climb up the steep steps to go to bed in the big feather bed. Well, it seemed big to me at the time.
When I’m with my grandkids I often think about what they will remember about me after they’ve grown. I find that I intentionally say and do things in the hope that it will be a memory they will hold dearly long after I’m gone. I suppose that’s silly in a way, because I know they will end up with lifetime memories of things that I likely will have forgotten by next week.
I wonder why we don’t think like this with our own kids.
This is the stuff I found helpful, challenging, interesting, or amusing today that I think may enrich your day as well…
5 Places to Look When You Don’t Know Where to Turn
–Michael Kelley “These are the times when you truly do not know what the next step is; when anxiety is closing in; when everywhere seems like darkness that you can’t get through; when you don’t know where to turn.
That’s why the Bible tells us to “look.” Here are five places you can focus your gaze during those times – when you don’t know where to turn…”
This article resonated with me for two obvious reasons: my two beautiful daughters…
To Your Daughter, Speak the Truth –Jen Wilkin “…tell her she’s beautiful. She won’t believe you, any more than we believed our own fathers and mothers. But she will hear it from someone who genuinely means it, with no ulterior motive. She will hear it from you first. And that matters.
Because you don’t want her to hear it from someone else first.
Your daughter knows when you tell her “You’re beautiful” that what you mean is “You’re beautiful to me.” And though initially she may perceive this to be the most well-meaning lie ever told to her, in time she will grow to recognize it as the most basic truth she can ever hear you speak: No matter what anyone else sees when they look at you, I see you when I look at you, and I say that what I see is beautiful. The end.”
I had no idea this existed. Would love to see it…
How 43 Giant, Crumbling Presidential Heads Ended Up in a Virginia Field –Jennifer Billock “In Croaker, Virginia stands a sight that would make just about anyone stop in their tracks. 43 ghostly effigies of presidents past crowd together in the tall grass. Some of the 18-to-20-foot busts have crumbling noses. Tear-like stains fall from the eyes of others. All have bashed-in heads to some degree. This could be a scene from the world’s most patriotic horror movie, but it’s all too real—and Howard Hankins’ family farm is just the latest stop on the busts’ larger-than-life journey from iconic pieces of art to zombie-like markers of America’s past.”
“Failure isn’t a necessary evil. In fact, it isn’t evil at all. It is a necessary consequence of doing something new.”
Is this sign necessary?
You can leave for no more the 15 minutes, then you’d better get your car back here…
This is the stuff I found helpful, challenging, interesting, or amusing today that I think may enrich your day as well…
Excellent tribute to Justice Scalia. I also appreciated the comparison of his approach to the Constitution to how we approach scripture…
A Giant has Fallen — The Death of Justice Antonin Scalia and the Future of Constitutional Government –Albert Mohler “Christians must also remember that Justice Scalia’s understanding of the proper reading of the Constitution as a text is directly relevant to the church’s proper reading of Scripture. The same liberal theorists who propose reading the Constitution as a “living” and “evolving” text also propose that the Bible be liberated from its actual text and from the intention of its authors. Ultimately, this approach to the Bible, common to theological liberalism, denies the authority of God as the ultimate author of the Scriptures. It is no accident that liberal theology and liberal theories of the constitution emerged together in American public life.”
One more on Scalia. This one a little more personal…
He encouraged me in our profession and I found that his phone line was still open to me when I called him a few more times over the years, sometimes to talk law and once just to ask if he wouldn’t mind if one of my law clerks poked her head in while she was in Washington. He not only said yes to meeting her, but asked if she’d like him to set aside a seat for her to watch a Supreme Court oral argument. She sat in the section set aside for the justices’ families.
There’s an even better call we can make, though. It’s the one that comes through faith by God’s grace…”
I found this piece very moving…
Death, the Prosperity Gospel and Me –Kate Bowler “One of the prosperity gospel’s greatest triumphs is its popularization of the term “blessed.” … Over the last 10 years, “being blessed” has become a full-fledged American phenomenon. Drivers can choose between the standard, mass-produced “Jesus Is Lord” novelty license plate or “Blessed” for $16.99 in a tasteful aluminum. When an “America’s Next Top Model” star took off his shirt, audiences saw it tattooed above his bulging pectorals. When Americans boast on Twitter about how well they’re doing on Thanksgiving, #blessed is the standard hashtag. It is the humble brag of the stars. #Blessed is the only caption suitable for viral images of alpine vacations and family yachting in barely there bikinis. It says: “I totally get it. I am down-to-earth enough to know that this is crazy.” But it also says: “God gave this to me. [Adorable shrug.] Don’t blame me, I’m blessed.”
I’ve got a grand-daughter who will be 10 next year. This kind of stuff worries me for her…
American Girls: How Social Media Is Disrupting the Lives of Teenagers –Nancy Jo Sales “I spent the past 2½ years researching my new book American Girls: Social Media and the Secret Lives of Teenagers, visiting 10 states and talking to more than 200 girls. It was talking to girls themselves that brought me to the subject of social media and what sexualization is doing to their psyches. How is it affecting their sense of self-worth? The tweens and teens I spoke to were often very troubled by the ways the culture of social media was exerting influence on their self-images and their relationships, with both friends and potential dating partners. They were often highly aware of the adverse effects of the sexualization on girls—but not always sure what to do about it.”
Good reminder to worship leaders…
Becoming Like What We Behold –Jamie Brown “We pick up the mannerisms of people we study and admire. Children are constantly watching, listening, and beholding their parents, and so it’s natural that they begin to become like what (or whom) they’re beholding…
Behold yourself? Become more like yourself. Behold the world? Become more like the word. Behold Jesus? Become more like Jesus.
When we behold Jesus, we’ll pick up more and more of his mannerisms.
Worship leaders: never tire or move beyond helping your congregation behold the glory of Jesus Christ, through the freedom-giving power of the Spirit. Jesus is not one of many things we should pointing to through our songs. He is the main thing. He is the central theme. And he is the image of God.”
Gotta love the classics…
between here and there, between now and then, between today and forever